17.4.25

Us And Them

Organized religions are one of the oldest forms of corralling & organizing humans unto "us and them" camps; the believers and the heathens. That was the first step towards lack of empathy. By separating us, via whatever microcosm you choose, you weaken us. Gotta keep 'em separated, or they might love each other.

We never learn natural empathy because we are conditioned that we're better than they are.


3.4.25

Communication

 

"You speak very well for a deaf person."

Thanks. I worked very hard at it, I still do. If you really wanted to pay me a compliment, you could instead commend me on the fact that I'm the one carrying the burden of the conversation. I am capable of speaking and I have some residual hearing. I speak because I don't have a choice most of the time, as the majority of the population couldn't be bothered to learn sign language.

Yet another device has been trialled; this time a ring that can decode finger spelling into English through a smartphone app (I'm guessing). This is again technology stepping in. Let me rewind a little bit.

I learned sign in my early 20s, growing up I was mainstreamed in a public school. I did not have any deaf peers near me really, so I was pretty much always isolated most of the time. Fast-forward to today, I'm now in my 50s and no amount of finger spelling cards or YouTube videos produced by sorority sisters has moved the needle. We've had representation on TV for decades, most recently Switched At Birth, which I thought was a commendable YA series.

Perhaps this new ring idea might help, it might not because I see 2 points of failure: The ring itself malfunctioning, and the other person not having a compatible phone to download the app, or horrors, even willing to do so.

We could just learn sign language and avoid all of this nonsense, but the hearing people won't do it, so we're back where we started.

8.3.25

Reality TV

I never got into "reality" television. I was turned off by the way these shows would celebrate the rudest people they could find. Then people would have water cooler discussions about the show and laugh about how terribly they treated each other.

I think this is also when Americans lost whatever remaining empathy they had.

11.2.25

The End

...And he never logged into Facebook again and lived happily ever after.

The End.

23.1.25

UPDATE: Still Writing

(1/23/2021) I should write more. I want to - it's laziness that's winning over sometimes. The real trick to writing comes down to 2 things:
1) a topic
2) discipline.
 
Without those, it's stream of consciousness writing like Michael Stipe does; only he does better it than I do.
 
So I suppose a low key vibe like a blog is a good place to start. Sometimes longer thoughts happen & I need a place to put them that don't really fit on Twitter.  
 
UPDATE (1/24/2025) I no longer own a Twitter account, I deleted that 2 years ago or so, when Elon bought it and ruined it. Ah, the magic of being able to go back in time and update your original blog entry! It's been 4 years, & I've kept busy with posting commentary, mostly. However, I'm writing much more often now. I've shaken the rust off, as it were.

I would like to reiterate to myself that the title may be "Hard Of Hearing Problems", but it has always been about focusing on putting a positive spin on life. Whether it be assistive technology, or finding a news tidbit, or a comment in a forum somewhere that's useful. I like to focus on those aspects. I shall spruce up a few things here and there along the way as well. 
 
Cheers, and I hope you enjoy reading.

Thanksgiving

My friend who lives in Germany remembered to wish me a Happy Thanksgiving, but all I could do for her was wish her a non-sucky Monday.